Thursday, July 3, 2008

A code of ethics

Will it last? That is to say can I love his flaws, rather than coming to a compromise? Is this the bottom line? Could the difference between love and liking be that liking comes with criteria while love is unconditional?
If we were to fit love into this definition, then perhaps I never really loved.
Sometimes you think you are in love, and you would love them endlessly but under one condition. That is if they didn’t love you back, you never would have hung on for this long. Is that why we love the ones we love? Do we make love to them to secure our places? 

Yep, it is an age thing. You get there and you refuse to expose yourself to what you may not like about the person. Because you have finally found someone who you feel for, thus you try to protect the feeling for as long as possible even if it means to live in a lie. It seems like there is no time, like answering a question in an exam. You know it is not the right answer, but you write it down anyway for what it is worth it can only gain you marks if not full marks.

To love unconditionally, that is to say can you give more than you take? Can you love someone no matter what?
Do you take them back time after time they betray your trust? Would you love them even if they can’t love you back? Is that the Code of Ethics (for Love).

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